Life goes on. It’s easy and also difficult to live, because the change is complete, total. The feeling of mourning is heavy. Azar Nafisi said in her book Reading Lolita in Tehran: “You get a strange feeling when you’re about to leave a place… like you’ll not only miss the people you love but you’ll […]
I understand that motive for murder, but I don’t want to understand it. It’s horrifying. The impression of evil is very heavy. There is no greater harm than giving our suffering to another.
I told you my friend was murdered at the end of October. The night of Halloween, in fact, when I was thirteen. Because of this, October is difficult for me. Most years I wait for November like the turn of a messiah. Near October 31, life is slowly getting easier and less painful for me. […]
Mourning is a process. We now understand that there is no order to it. However, bereavement involves stages that allow the bereaved to reformulate his life without the deceased. There is denial, anger, sadness, depression, acceptance. The stages of grief are well-known now. However, in the case of a death in which the manner of […]
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